Portuguese Grammar Guide

Reflexive/pronominal verbs (e.g.: Eu deito-me)

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Description

An Overview of Reflexive/Pronominal Verbs (Verbos Pronominais)

Reflexive (pronominal) verbs include a pronoun as part of the infinitive and are listed in dictionaries with it, e.g.: levantar-se, deitar-se. They typically express actions done to or for oneself.

The pronoun must agree with the subject, i.e., refer to the same person who performs and receives the action:

  • Eu lavo-me.

  • Tu deitas-te cedo.

  • Nós sentimo-nos bem.


Reflexive Pronouns (Present tense example)

Using divertir-se:

Subject Form Translation
eu divirto-mo I have nun
tu divertes-te you have fun
ele/ela/você diverte-se he/she has fun
nós divertimo-nos we have fun
vocês/eles divertem-se they have fun

Common Reflexive/Pronominal Verbs

  • lembrar-se (de) – to remember

  • deitar-se – to go to bed

  • apressar-se – to hurry

  • arrepender-se – to regret

  • atrever-se – to dare

  • banhar-se – to bathe

  • casar-se – to get married

  • dar-se conta (de) – to realize

  • acordar / acordar-se – to wake (up)

  • adormecer / adormecer-se – to fall asleep

  • tomar banho / banhar-se – to bathe

  • zangar-se – to get angry

  • ir-se – to leave

  • chamar-se – to be called

  • lavar-se – to wash oneself

  • levantar-se – to get up

  • maquilhar-se – to put on makeup

  • pentear-se – to do one’s hair

  • queixar-se (de) – to complain

  • sentar-se – to sit down

  • sentir-se – to feel


Body parts (important difference)

Like Spanish, Portuguese often uses reflexive structures instead of possessives:

  • Lavo as mãos. / Lavo-me as mãos. (not as minhas mãos)

  • Pinta as unhas.


Reflexive vs non-reflexive meaning

Some verbs can be used both ways:

  • Ele veste-se. (he gets dressed)

  • A mãe veste a criança. (she dresses the child)

But some verbs are always pronominal:

  • arrepender-se

  • atrever-se

  • queixar-se


Placement of reflexive pronouns

1. Before the verb (most common)

  • Não me deito cedo.

  • Eu me levanto cedo. (EP often prefers levanto-me)


2. Attached to the verb

  • Infinitive

    • Quero deitar-me / Quero me deitar

  • Progressive

    • Estou a maquilhar-me

  • Affirmative commands

    • Levanta-te!

👉 Accents may be required:

  • Levanta-te!

  • Diz-me!


🔑 Key point

  • Pronoun must match the subject

  • Placement depends on structure (negation, infinitive, command, etc.)

  • Some verbs are always pronominal, others are not

Questions

Questions about Pronominal Verbs (Portuguese)

Q: Why is it Eu lembro-me and NOT Eu lembro (to mean "I remember")?
Lembrar-se is a pronominal verb meaning “to remember.” The non-pronominal lembrar has a different structure (it usually takes an object: Lembro o nome is less common; EP prefers Lembro-me do nome).


Q: Why is it Tu lavas-te and NOT Tu se lavas?
The reflexive pronoun must agree with the subject:

  • eu → me

  • tu → te

  • ele/ela → se

So: tu lavas-te (not se).


Q: Why is it Eles lavam as mãos / Eles lavam-se as mãos and NOT Eles lavam as suas mãos?
With body parts, Portuguese typically avoids possessives and uses:

  • a definite article (as mãos)

  • often a pronominal construction (lavam-se)


Q: Why is it Eu zango-me and not Eu zango to mean “I get angry”?
Zangar-se is a pronominal verb meaning “to get angry.”
Without the pronoun, zangar is transitive:

  • Eu zango-me. (I get angry)

  • Eu zango o meu irmão. (I make my brother angry)


Q: Why is it Arrependo-me de ter ido lá and NOT Arrependo de ter ido lá?
Arrepender-se is a verb that is always pronominal, so it must include the reflexive pronoun:

  • Arrependo-me… (correct)

  • Arrependo… (incorrect)


🔑 Key point

  • Some verbs are always pronominal (arrepender-se, queixar-se)

  • Others change meaning depending on whether they are pronominal

  • The pronoun must always match the subject

Exercises

Give the correct present tense form of the verb:

Elas com pouca água para conservar recursos.
Tu de autocarro.
Eu de saia para o concerto.
Vós por política.
Nós com tudo.
Ele triste porque a namorada foi-se de manhã.

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Complete the following translations:

I lie down. = Eu .
Why are you (informal) getting angry? = ?
They wonder if she will help them. = Eles se ela os ajudará.
He thinks we should sit down. = Ele pensa que devemos .
Every day she wakes up at 7. = Todos os dias ela às 7.

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Give the preterite (pretérito perfeito):

Eu as mãos.
A minha irmã no ano passado.
Os meus amigos da verdade.
Tu embora cedo ontem.
Nós de acordo.

Tags: infinitives auxiiaries pronouns order of pronouns

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